What's your primary love language?

Have you guys heard about the love languages? If yes...do you know which is your primary love language? I know I do...but before i tell you what's MY primary love language...let me introduce to you the 5 types of love languages. ^^

The Five Love Languages is by Gary Chapman and he wrote books about it to apply it for lovers, families, teenagers, singles, etc.

It's important to know another person's primary love language and yours as well as it is one of the way to communicate well with each other. It is definately one of the effective ways to communicate well.


The five love languages are:

1. Words of affirmation
2. Quality time
3. Receiving gifts
4. Acts of service
5. Physical touch

Your primary love language would be made up primarily of one of these five languages, with lesser amounts of one or two others.

1. Words of affirmation - applies when verbal appreciation such as "you're beautiful", "you're doing great" speaks powerfully to a person. Words of encouragement would also help to encounter the person's difficulties and insecurities to improve confidence.

2. Quality time - applies when undivided attention is given to a person. This means to spend time together focusing on each other rather than on other things..like, watching football with a wife who isn't passionate about football is NOT quality time for the wife. Quality conversation also plays an important role where thoughts, opinions and feelings are shared. An attentive and a symphatatic listener will not only listen but to offer advise and making sure that the person is truly being listened to.

3. Receiving gifts - applies when a person feels loved by receiving visual symbols of love - gifts. It doesn't have to be an expensive gift but also free, rare and frequent gifts would mean a lot to a person. Even by means of the gift of self when a person would be there for someone going through something together. It will leave them happy and secure in the relationship.

4. Acts of service - applies where simple gesture of helping up doing the chores or things that lessen the burden of another person would mean a lot. It's important to take note that this acts of service is out of love and not because of obligations. We should also learn what type of acts of service a person would show love and appreciation to ensure a better relationship.

5. Physical touch - applies to most men? LOL~ It applies when a person feels most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner like hugging, holding hands, kissing. Those who have this as their primary love language will either make or break the relationship. We should also learn how to speak this language of another person's. Not every type of touch is for every one. ^^


So.........wanna know BoDoBy's primary love language?? =P

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Quality time. ^^

SO...I WANNA SPEND A LOT OF TIME WITH YOU ALL WHEN I GO DOWN TO KL IN DECEMBER!!! *Evil laughs* MUAHAHAHAHA~!!


So...what's your primary love language? Mind to share it?