BodoBy is a Perfect Melancholy / Peaceful Phlegmatic

Yes that is what I am.

This is a natural blend...a melancholy + phlegmatic, which both are introverted, pessimistic and soft spoken. I think the quiz we've done is accurate on my emotions, the way i deal with things and my weaknesses. Among all the Bodos, i am the most serious one. xD

And also, maybe that is the reason i rather become a piano teacher instead of an accountant, because the book said this blend of temperament "makes the greatest educators as melancholies' love of study and research is brightened by phlegmatics' ability to get along with people and present material in a pleasant manner".

And besides that, i now understood why my past relationship seem to not work out as my ex couldn't understand me well enough, especially when it comes to my melancholy part, where i have my own ways and thinking - because he himself is a powerful choleric and he always expected me to be the peaceful phlegmatic and follow whatever he thinks, assuming that i will be fine with EVERYTHING. Well, he took this for granted because even peaceful phlegmatic might not say "no"...doesn't mean that they agree with what you say and the fact that i'm a melancholy, i will do as what i think is be. xD

Well, in this post...i rather talk about overcoming the weaknesses because that is more crucial. And...i think my main weakness falls on the melancholy side, not the phlegmatic. I think the phlegmatic actually helps me to overcome with my melancholy's dark side.

Being a melancholy, i often feel down a lot and get easily depressed (same goes for Amos). I get hurt easily and always thinking of the negatives (to the extent i really hate myself...). It's like, just because of a single SMS in the morning, it can already almost spoil my whole day. It's that serious. LOL. But then again, I will always remind myself that we shouldn't let little things or other things to disturb our plans and the other people around us. I would think it's unfair to others and let them see my gloomy face. So, i would often try my best to show that i am happy when i am with others even though i feel really sad and down inside (it could still be very hard to fake my face). I also always remind myself that we are responsible for our own happiness - no one can make us happy besides ourselves. :)

When it comes to being a melancholy, i do sometimes set my standards on everything so high and when it doesn't meet them, i feel very disappointed with the situation and MYSELF. Thinking that i'm not good enough and all the negative thoughts come again. Now i wish i'm not a melancholy. LOL~ Well, got to lower my standards and never think everything should be perfect. We should work the bad things out when it comes...and always think positive...and not fall back because of the bad things. Latest example i would take would be me and Amos. I assumed things will be fine between us and he gave me hope when he was courting me for the past few months, but never expected that he would fall back so far behind after he face depression from work. That left me....being confused and rejected. I only got to blame myself for it...i don't know why (but Estee said it's a girl nature to blame ourselves for something or anything that goes wrong). I know it's no one's fault...but i felt like i couldn't do anything for him and for us.

So, it just goes back to getting back to my ownself as fast as i can...to minimize the hurt i'm causing for both of us. And good thing i have all my Bodos around me so i can have more chance to be happier. :D

Muah muah my bodo families. Love you~ You don't know how much you all mean to me.

patience is virtue

or so they say.

but sometimes too much of a good thing is never good.

sometimes you have to lose all sense and just do what you feel is right at that moment.

Don't wait for a smile to be nice
Don't wait to be loved, to love
Don't wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend
Don't wait for the best job, to begin to work
Don't wait to have a lot, to share a bit
Don't wait for the fall, to remember the advice
Don't wait for pain, to believe in prayer
Don't wait to have time, to be able to serve
Don't wait for anybody else pain, to ask for apologies
Neither separation to make it up
Don't wait... Because u don't know how long it will take

so like casey says-_-
'bulat, don't need to wait for a particular reason just to dress up'
kanasai

dedicated to casey :D

you like korean girls right? give you this haha :D
ke ai

Lonely BodoGur :P

Wondering what is she thinking about....
Wondering what is she looking at...

Kuching Miao Miao 17-20th Aug 2009

Warning: Lots of photos ahead :P

****

Because BodoLat can't come along with me to Kuching...so i went alone this time. :D Hope in the future your papa mama can allow you la. *pat pat Bulat*

My trip back to Kuching wasn't that relaxing as i thought it would be. I go out often, drove around the city up and down and at the end of the day, i got pretty tired.

1. At Home

Dad's chickens behind the house.


Dad's tortoises outside the house. Can you spot the tortoises making love? :P


Dad's fish aquarium which the tank was replaced for a new one and the landscape was re-done because the old tank was leaking few weeks ago and caused a lot of fish to die after that incident. *Sad*

My bedroom which you all know i missssss sooo muchhh
Sorry it's messy :P

I got video of the dogs at home but can't upload it coz of the slow internet connection. Share the pity look of the labradors at home, waiting to come out from their 'room' after 5pm.





2. Kuching Food

Hopoh Lui Cha

This is a famous hakka dish with all the vegetables and the herb soup (which is bitter) and some nuts.

Kueh Chap

The soup is boiled with herbs and there're pork meats and spare parts in it. The noodle is the flat type which is almost like pan mee but the texture is much softer. :D

My cousin, Edwin. Say chesseeee

Mee Pok

Cooked the same way as kolo mee but the mee type is called mee pok. Taste slightly different than kolo mee.

Kolo Mee

This is the seafood kolo mee, replacing the char sio and minced pork with seafoods.

Kolo Kiaw - Wan tan

The wantan in Kuching tastes very different from over here

Foochow Kong Pia

Foochow bread which is crispy at the outside and juicy in the inside with the minced pork. This one to show Amos the difference of Kuching's kong pia with West M'sia''s kong pia

Tomato Sauced Stir-fried Kolo Mee

Tomato sauced but taste different than a spaghetti sauced. xD This one only at Kuching can get

Fried Kolo Mee

Kolo mee can be cooked in many ways... :D

Coconut + Sugarcane drink

This drink is very famous here. :D

Fried Ice-cream - This one Bulat missed it

Hot and crispy at the outside, very cold in the inside

Prata Sausage

This one is very interesting. Outside use Prata skin then they put sausage, mayonese, chilli sauce and cabbage inside and wrap it.

Lamb Chop with Rosemary Sauce

Lamb chop which is so tender and juicy. This one my dancing teacher treat me. Heavy lunch with mushroom soup and breads. I miss dancing.... T.T

Lok Lok

Sweet potato, heh piah (prawn crackers) and sotong. Yum yum...

you want??? :P

3. Outing


This is my high school close friend's mom, Aunty Grace. She asked me to have breakfast with her at 10th mile bazaar as she's working there in the council..and we had laksa nearby. Aunty Grace said she want to take this photo to show to her son, Clement who is studying at Perth now to make him drool. Hohoho...

Outing with Jason and Edwin

At Kuching Festival, the Garden show, with my cousin, Edwin

Lao shiHip hop lao shi

Bodo face

Lagi bodo face

Pose for the drinks
No.1
No.2

The End

Lucky.... with a twist.

I am not sure if this version is edited by a random person or memang got this version wan, but I LOVE IT A LOT. Totally diff. way of singing it. Enjoy :D

Just when you are giving up...

Ok. Please prepare yourself for what might be the most touching 160 seconds you will ever feel. This guy, manage to do what i been trying to do in weeks, telling people about life and all...is just 160 seconds.

For those who think that life sucks, for those who thinks that you are failure, for those who thinks that everything is hopeless...

And for the bodos.... You all know what you want, and where you want to head to in life. This video might just give you that extra confident that you might need along the way.

*sob* i go wipe my tears first, you all watch first ...T.T

Love

Our bodo family is nurtured well with lots of love...and I feel that each one of us plays an important role in this part of becoming a bodo family member.


1. Estee a.k.a. BodoLat - her bubbly character, happy go lucky type and her sincerity in everything she does for her friends. she's also the listener in the group.

*Bodosey: i would like to add some comments and to share my love with Bodos too! Bodolat is a funny n happy type. U hang out with her, u wont feel stress...instead u feel bodo!*



2. Casey a.k.a. BodoSey - his lameness and talkative nature makes our conversation active and on-going, making us laugh.

*Bodosey: i just wanna comment that i had goosebumps and sweats when i look at this scary pic -.-" *



3. Rocky a.k.a. BodoKy - he's like the papa of the family as he advises us a lot in our everyday problems and he will often pick us out go kai kai & makan.

*Bodosey: Bodoky, a papa papparoti!! Whenever u wanna go anywhere he bring u, whenever u ned advise he gave u, whenever u wanna take cute pic he run away! XD there wouldnt be any much fun without him around*



4. Sylvia a.k.a. BodoBy - ??? Sorry ar..I can't think about anything. =X

*Bodosey: U have no comment i have! XD All bodos have their own elements, Bodoby is not as talkative compared to all 3 Bodos, but sharing the similarities: listening, caring and laughing together...That's how she can become one of our closest Bodo siblings :D *

Now...sharing with you.....the meaning of "Love" :D

*Scanned from one of the Virtues Reflection Cards that my dad gave me*

:)

Every day may not be good,
but there's something good in every day.
If you don't think every day is a good day, just try missing one.

-Author unknown

pic off flickr. quote off my friend's mom's blog:P
credits back to both of them'

the bodosey series

♥ ♥

revealing the series soon. stay tune .....

*heh*

*heh heh*

*heh heh heh*

*heh heh heh heh heh heh heh heh*

don't worry casey, all photoshopped edy :D

update: 11.30pm August 0909
aiyo* darling....laughs*
*bangbang you are dead. 50 bullets in your head.* :D
one is red. one is blue. all the rest are chicken poo!
wheres the lil birdie?

eeeee* i shy`

and an old series. damn cuteeee*

heh my bro sms bodo bertul :P

Full house - full of food; full of lameness; full of pics :D

Finally i'm gonna blog bout a wonderful gatheringgg!! if i delay it any longer, ah lat is gonna kill me soon, hahaha!!

We had our dinner at Fullhouse Cafe tat day. No doubt, its a very unique and romantic place to dine in :D

The theme? Authentic, special, romantic, interesting, vivid.... and YET, it didnt stop us from being BODO and messed the whole place up hahahaha!



Introducing 1st, the Bodo family who were preparing themselves for a feast. While waiting for food, we became model for ourselves by takin pix!

Poke 'n Lat

Amosylvia~~*


Lame 'n Fish :D

Before we took our fork and spoon to diggg our food, someone will say, "STOP! I wanna take picture 1st..."~ LOL! And again, we model ourselves together with our food :P


Picture of the Month: Ah mosh promoting his Smooties-Fruities Fish . His face reminds me of chef promoting food in The Star Mag XD


Bodoby and her Smoked Salmon Sandwich, and she said: "Nyerrr nyerrr *sticks tongue out* u cnt eat my food"

Bodoky looking cool with fork on his hand! And kindly ignore my face -.-" its nt suppose to be there. Pocky is suppose to be da full model, yet suddenly i polluted the background...


Fish fish promoting her Wok-Sear Chicken chop, now here's how a model promote food "Smile" :D and "Peace" hahaha!


The position of my chicken chop was senget...~ tats why my head have to be senget to be aligned with the food! LOL!!!


Bodolat's Fullhouse Club Sandwich hmmm....Where's her face??!!!

****After the cravings****

After dinner, Fish fish was stil hungry, coz she stil wanna eat a big burger, however its made of cotton XD !


I realize i've been VERY kepo~my face was always there when Bodolat wanna take pix LOL!
Now u see wat i mean....~ lolx...!


Cute cute gals wif big big spec *kawaiii ne~~*


Bodoby: "Why wanna take pic of my sexy butt??!"

Rite here we see Bodoky in two types of pose:

Cute Pose

Cool Pose

***Finally some extras to be shared***



My bodoness with the characters!! :D



Fish fish under somebody's mouth! LOL!

Flowery Bodobyyy~*

That's all for now, alot of pics, and its taking me alot of time to blog bout it :D
More to come in our next trip!! Please be patient and wait, everyone XD